At Big House Church, we believe that life is best lived in community, and as men, we are called to walk alongside one another in faith. God calls men to hard things, and lasting strength often comes through dependence on Him and deep brotherhood. Our Men's Gatherings happen quarterly, creating an intentional space for men to come together, seek God, and build deep, authentic relationships.

What to Expect

  • Real Conversations with new friends – We value openness, vulnerability, and honesty as we share our journeys and encourage one another.

  • Worship & Prayer – Time set aside to seek God’s presence together.

  • Challenging & Encouraging Messages – Biblical teaching that pushes us to grow in faith and action.

  • Brotherhood – A space where men support and challenge one another in their walk with Christ.

  • Personal Discovery and Growth - God is going to meet with us, transform us into His image, and call us further into His kingdom.

Why Gather?

These quarterly gatherings are not about branding a ministry or an event but about fostering a rhythm of consistency in our pursuit of God and one another. It’s not a program—it’s an opportunity to step into deeper relationships with God and with the men in our community. God has called each of us to love and lead others, and we believe that He desires to speak directly to us. Our community seeks to love and challenge each other to full obedience and acceptance of everything that God has for us—because when we walk in obedience, God transforms lives, strengthens families, and ignites communities with His presence. The "men's ministry" at Big House is really the "many ministries that God will birth in the lives of each man in our church family."

upcoming events

Date: Wednesday, March 26, 2025
Time: 6:30 - 8:30 PM
Location: Big House Offices - 3177 Virginia Beach Blvd

All men at Big House, High School age and older, are invited for a time of fellowship and worship. Let's get to know one another and encourage each other in the Lord!

Date: Wednesday, March 26
Time: 6:30 - 8:30 PM
Location: Big House Offices at 3177 Virginia Beach Blvd

*BHYouth High School boys and Living Room guys are encouraged to attend this men’s gathering in place of BHYouth group and Living Room Open House on this Wednesday specifically!

contact us

Questions, Wanna pitch in, or have something God has put on your heart? Please contact any of the following men. This is a ministry from the men of Big House for the men of Big House(and all who will be impacted by them).

Pat Trompeter at pat.trompeter@gmail.com

T.J. Lents at tj@bighousechurch.com

Josh Pope at joshpope151@gmail.com